Parenting cai thiab muaj cov me nyuam nyob rau hauv lub tebchaws United States
Parenting laws and having kids in the United States
Kuv tawm kuv cov me nyuam nyob rau hauv kuv lub tsev los yog chav tsev tsis muaj kuv?
Can I leave my kids at my house or apartment without me?
Nyob rau hauv lub tebchaws United States, hluas cov me nyuam thiab cov me nyuam mos yuav tsis tsum sab laug ntawm lub tsev tsis muaj ib tug neeg laus. Nyob rau hauv cov xeev feem ntau, cov me nyuam tshaj 12-xyoo-laus yuav saib xyuas ntawm lawv cov me kwv tij los yog viv ncaus.
Yog hais tias koj tawm hauv koj tus tub los yog tus ntxhais nyob rau hauv koj lub tsev los yog chav tsev nyob ib leeg, koj yuav tau txais nyob rau hauv cov teeb meem los ntawm tsoom fwv.
Yog hais tias koj ua hauj lwm thiab muaj cov tub ntxhais me nyuam, koj yuav tsum tau them rau koj cov me nyuam mus rau chaw zov me nyuam los yog muaj ib tug neeg zov me nyuam. Tus tsoom fwv cov tshev mis daycares kom paub tseeb tias lawv noj zoo saib xyuas ntawm koj tus me nyuam.
Yog hais tias koj tsis muaj nyiaj txaus los them rau ib tug neeg zov me nyuam los yog chaw zov me nyuam, tej zaum koj yuav muaj peev xwm "pauv" nrog lwm tsev neeg. Koj yuav saib lawv cov me nyuam nyob rau hauv ib hnub thiab lwm yam tsev neeg yuav saib tau koj cov me nyuam ib hnub. Tej zaum koj yuav tau mus nrhiav ib tug niam los yog txiv nyob rau hauv koj lub zej zog mus saib koj tus me nyuam.
Muaj yog ib qho kev pab hu ua HeadStart uas pab cov tsev neeg them rau kev zov me nyuam rau cov me nyuam muaj hnub nyoog 3-5.
In the United States, young kids and babies cannot be left at the house without an adult. In most states, kids over 12-years-old can take care of their younger brothers or sisters.
If you leave your son or daughter at your house or apartment alone, you can get in trouble by the government.
If you work and have young kids, you will need to pay for your kids to go to daycare or have a babysitter. The government checks daycares to make sure they are taking good care of your kids.
If you do not have enough money to pay for a babysitter or daycare, you might be able to “trade” with another family. You could watch their kids on some days and the other family can watch your kids another day. You might be able to find a mother or father in your community to watch your kids.
There is a program called HeadStart that helps families pay for childcare for kids ages 3-5.
Kuv ntaus kuv cov me nyuam thaum lawv ua phem?
Can I hit my kids when they act bad?
Nyob rau hauv lub tebchaws United States, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob ntaus cov me nyuam. Yog hais tias koj ntaus koj tus me nyuam, tsoom fwv yuav coj koj cov me nyuam ntawm koj. Yog hais tias koj cov me nyuam tsis ua raws li cov kev cai, koj yuav tsum paub lwm txoj kev los qhia kom lawv yuav tsum zoo.
In the United States, you can not hit children. If you hit your children, the government can take your children away from you. If your children are not following rules, you need to learn other ways to teach them to be good.
Yuav ua li cas yuav ua li cas yog hais tias kuv cov me nyuam yeej ua heev American?
What can I do if my kids are acting very American?
Tej zaum koj yuav xav tias tu siab vim hais tias koj tus me nyuam muaj qhov heev American. Nws yog feem ntau yooj yim rau cov me nyuam mus kho rau American kab lis kev cai vim hais tias nws yog ib qho yooj yim rau lawv kawm lus Askiv. Nco ntsoov, koj xav kom koj cov me nyuam kawm tau ntawv zoo nyob rau hauv America thiab txawm hais tias koj tsis zoo siab, nws yog ib qhov zoo rau lawv yuav tau kho mus rau lub neej nyob rau hauv America.
Nyob rau hauv lub tebchaws United States, ntau cov niam txiv thiab cov xib fwb qhia cov me nyuam thaum lawv ua ib txoj hauj lwm zoo. Yog hais tias koj muaj peev xwm qhia rau koj tus me nyuam thaum lawv ua ib yam dab tsi zoo, qhov no yuav pab tau koj muaj ib tug zoo kev sib raug zoo nrog koj tus me nyuam. Muaj ntau neeg tawg rog thiab neeg txawv teb chaws cov me nyuam hais tias lawv xav lawv niam lawv txiv yuav qhia rau lawv yog hais tias lawv ua ib yam dab tsi zoo.
Tham nrog koj tus me nyuam txog koj lub tsev lub teb chaws. Qhia cov duab thiab qhia rau lawv txog koj nyiam tej yam uas los ntawm koj lub teb chaws.
Nrhiav ib yam uas koj thiab koj cov me nyuam ob leeg yeej nyiam txog America. Koj hais tias kev ua si ua ke. Piv txwv li, koj yuav tau tag nrho zoo ib yam li baseball. Mus rau baseball ua si ua ke nrog koj tus me nyuam.
You might feel sad because your kids are becoming very American. It is often easy for kids to adjust to American culture because it is easy for them to learn English. Remember, you want your kids to succeed in America and even if you feel sad, it is good for them to adjust to life in America.
In the United States, many parents and teachers tell kids when they do a good job. If you can tell your kids when they do something good, this will help you have a good relationship with your kids. Many refugee and immigrant kids say they wish their parents would tell them if they do something good.
Talk to your kids about your home country. Share pictures and tell them about your favorite things from your country.
Find one thing you and your kids both really like about America. Do that activity together. For example, you might all like baseball. Go to baseball games together with your kids.
Yuav ua li cas Kuv yuav qhia kuv cov me nyuam peb cov lus?
How can I teach my kids our language?
Koj muaj peev xwm pab tau koj tus me nyuam kawm lus Askiv thiab koj yam lus. Koj cov me nyuam yuav kawm lus Askiv sai yog hais tias lawv tseem kom hais lus thiab kawm koj yam lus!
Thaum koj tus me nyuam tseem nyob hauv lub tsev, cia lawv hais lus nyob rau hauv ob yam lus qhia.
You can help your kids learn English and your language. Your kids will learn English faster if they also keep speaking and learning your language!
When your kids are at home, let them speak in both languages.
Ask them to read books in your language. Watch movies and listen to music in your language.
Kuv txhawj xeeb rau kuv tus tub los yog tus ntxhais yog siv yeeb tshuaj los yog dej caw.
I am worried my son or daughter is using drugs or alcohol.
Yog hais tias koj muaj kev txhawj xeeb koj tus tub los yog tus ntxhais yog siv dej cawv, koj tham tau nrog koj tus kws kho mob los yog mus rau lawv tus xib fwb. Nyob rau hauv lub tebchaws United States, cov xib fwb pab cov tsev neeg. Nws yog ib heev li qub los tham rau cov xib fwb.
Tej zaum koj yuav xav tias txaj muag. Tej zaum koj yuav tsis xav kom cov neeg paub koj tus me nyuam yog muaj ib qho teeb meem. Tiam sis yog tias koj nkaum qhov teeb meem, nws yuav tau txais zuj zus.
If you are worried your son or daughter is using alcohol, you can talk to your doctor or to their teacher. In the United States, teachers help families. It is very normal to talk to teachers.
You may feel embarrassed. You might not want people to know your child is having a problem. But if you hide the problem, it will get worse.
Yog xav paub ntxiv txog niam txiv nyob rau hauv lub tebchaws United States
More information about parenting in the United States
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