Ouerskap en kinders grootmaak

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Ouerskap wette en met kinders in die Verenigde State

Parenting laws and having kids in the United States

ouerskap wette in die Verenigde State

parenting laws in the United States

Kan ek my kinders by my huis of woonstel sonder my verlaat?

Can I leave my kids at my house or apartment without me?

  • In die Verenigde State, jong kinders en babas kan gelaat word by die huis sonder 'n volwassene. In die meeste state, kinders oor 12 jaar-oue kan sorg van hul jonger broers of susters.
  • As jy los jou seun of dogter by jou huis of woonstel alleen, jy in die moeilikheid kan kry deur die regering.
  • As jy werk en het jong kinders, Jy sal moet betaal vir jou kinders om te gaan na dagsorg of het 'n oppasser. Die regering kontroleer daycares maak seker hulle is goed versorg jou kinders neem.
  • As jy nie genoeg geld om te betaal vir 'n oppasser of dagsorg, sal jy dalk in staat om "handel" met 'n ander familie. Jy kan hul kinders kyk op 'n paar dae en die ander gesin kan kyk hoe jou kinders nog 'n dag. Jy dalk 'n ma of pa in jou gemeenskap om te kyk hoe jou kinders vind.
  • Daar is 'n program genaamd HeadStart wat help gesinne betaal vir kinders se versorging vir kinders ouderdomme 3-5.
  • In the United States, young kids and babies cannot be left at the house without an adult. In most states, kids over 12-years-old can take care of their younger brothers or sisters.
  • If you leave your son or daughter at your house or apartment alone, you can get in trouble by the government.
  • If you work and have young kids, you will need to pay for your kids to go to daycare or have a babysitter. The government checks daycares to make sure they are taking good care of your kids.
  • If you do not have enough money to pay for a babysitter or daycare, you might be able to “trade” with another family. You could watch their kids on some days and the other family can watch your kids another day. You might be able to find a mother or father in your community to watch your kids.
  • There is a program called HeadStart that helps families pay for childcare for kids ages 3-5.

Kan ek my kinders slaan wanneer hulle sleg optree?

Can I hit my kids when they act bad?

  • In die Verenigde State, Jy kan nie kinders getref. As jy jou kinders getref, die regering kan neem jou kinders weg van jou.
    As jou kinders nie na aanleiding van reëls, Jy moet leer ander maniere om hulle goed te leer.
  • In the United States, you can not hit children. If you hit your children, the government can take your children away from you.
    If your children are not following rules, you need to learn other ways to teach them to be good.

Wat kan ek doen as my kinders is baie Amerikaanse optree?

What can I do if my kids are acting very American?

  • Dalk voel jy hartseer omdat jou kinders is besig om baie Amerikaanse. Dit is dikwels maklik vir kinders om aan te pas om Amerikaanse kultuur want dit is maklik vir hulle om te leer Engels. onthou, jy wil jou kinders om sukses te behaal in Amerika en selfs as jy voel hartseer, Dit is goed vir hulle om aan te pas om te lewe in Amerika.
  • In die Verenigde State, Baie ouers en onderwysers vertel kinders wanneer hulle doen 'n goeie werk. As jy kan sê vir jou kinders wanneer hulle iets goed doen, Dit sal jou help om 'n goeie verhouding met jou kinders. Baie vlugtelinge en immigrant kinders sê hulle wens hul ouers sou vir hulle sê as hulle iets goed doen.
  • Praat met jou kinders oor jou huis land. Deel foto's en vertel hulle van jou gunsteling dinge uit jou land.
  • Een ding wat jy en jou kinders albei graag oor Amerika vind. Doen daardie aktiwiteit saam. Byvoorbeeld, Jy kan dalk almal hou van bofbal. Gaan na bofbal speletjies saam met jou kinders.
  • You might feel sad because your kids are becoming very American. It is often easy for kids to adjust to American culture because it is easy for them to learn English. Remember, you want your kids to succeed in America and even if you feel sad, it is good for them to adjust to life in America.
  • In the United States, many parents and teachers tell kids when they do a good job. If you can tell your kids when they do something good, this will help you have a good relationship with your kids. Many refugee and immigrant kids say they wish their parents would tell them if they do something good.
  • Talk to your kids about your home country. Share pictures and tell them about your favorite things from your country.
  • Find one thing you and your kids both really like about America. Do that activity together. For example, you might all like baseball. Go to baseball games together with your kids.

Hoe kan ek leer my kinders ons taal?

How can I teach my kids our language?

  • Jy kan jou kinders leer Engels en jou taal help. Jou kinders sal leer Engels vinniger as hulle ook hou praat en leer jou taal!
  • Wanneer jou kinders by die huis is, Laat hulle in beide tale praat.
  • Vra hulle om te lees boeke in jou taal. Kyk flieks en luister na musiek in jou taal.
  • You can help your kids learn English and your language. Your kids will learn English faster if they also keep speaking and learning your language!
  • When your kids are at home, let them speak in both languages.
  • Ask them to read books in your language. Watch movies and listen to music in your language.

Ek bekommer my seun of dogter is met behulp van dwelms of alkohol.

I am worried my son or daughter is using drugs or alcohol.

  • As jy bekommerd is jou seun of dogter is met behulp van alkohol, Jy kan praat met jou dokter of om hul onderwyser. In die Verenigde State, onderwysers help gesinne. Dit is baie normaal om te praat met onderwysers.
  • Voel jy dalk verleë. Jy sal dalk nie wil hê dat mense om te weet jou kind is ongelukkig nie. Maar as jy die probleem steek, dit vererger.
  • If you are worried your son or daughter is using alcohol, you can talk to your doctor or to their teacher. In the United States, teachers help families. It is very normal to talk to teachers.
  • You may feel embarrassed. You might not want people to know your child is having a problem. But if you hide the problem, it will get worse.

Meer inligting oor ouerskap in die Verenigde State

More information about parenting in the United States

Soek jy inligting oor hoe om jou te help jou seun of dogter by die skool? Lees meer oor jou kinders by die skool te help en hulle voor te berei vir Universiteit.

Are you looking for information about how to help your son or daughter at school? Read more about helping your kids at school and preparing them for university.

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